How to Have Anal Sex: 7 Essential Tips for a Safe Experience

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How to Have Anal Sex: 7 Essential Tips for a Safe Experience

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Learning about anal sex can contribute to a more satisfying sexual experience. However, it’s essential to follow some tips to prevent Peyronie’s Disease. Check out these tips for a better experience.

Not knowing how to have anal sex can prevent men from exploring their sexuality and make this type of relationship a taboo.

A study from Indiana University in the United States showed that anal sex is becoming more common. In the 1990s, between 25% and 35% of men and women said they had tried it. Twenty years later, around 40% to 45% had practiced it.

This popularization brings up a rarely discussed aspect: the need to take care to avoid damaging the penis.

With that in mind, here are 7 essential tips for safe, comfortable, and pleasurable anal sex for everyone involved.

Tips for Safe and Pleasurable Anal Sex

Anal sex is pleasurable due to an anatomical factor: the anus is narrower compared to the vagina, so it exerts more pressure on the penis. The excitement may also relate to personal preferences.

This type of stimulation can be practiced by both heterosexual and homosexual partners, actively or passively.

However, if not done properly, anal penetration can cause injuries to the penis, curvature, and penile fractures.

Learn the necessary precautions, whether for someone having anal penetration for the first time or someone who is already familiar with the practice but not following all recommendations.

1. Lubrication

Lubrication helps the penis overcome resistance and penetrate without forcing it. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not naturally lubricated, so adding extra lubrication is essential for safe practice.

Additionally, choose a long-lasting water- or silicone-based lubricant that offers more glide in generous quantities, and reapply as necessary.

2. Slow and Safe Movements

Penetrate slowly and progressively after lubrication. This care can reduce the risk of penile trauma.

After penetration, opt for slow, short movements. This can reduce discomfort during anal sex and lower the risk of impacts that cause fibrosis in the tunica albuginea.

3. Toys Before the Act

The use of anal sex toys is highly recommended, but they should have a flared base to avoid accidents. In addition, make sure to clean them before and after use. An alternative to sex toys is the use of a finger.

This should be done before penetration with the penis, during foreplay, to prepare the area. Additionally, sex toys can help explore other erogenous zones, such as the prostate.

4. Use of Water-Based Condoms

Using condoms is recommended to assist with both lubrication and preventing STIs.

However, when using protection, avoid oil-based lubricants, as they can damage the condom. Opt for water-based ones.

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5. Avoid Oral or Vaginal Sex

During anal sex, avoid switching to oral or vaginal sex.

The anus contains more bacteria and fungi. When the penis touches other parts of the body, it can transmit these microorganisms, which may be harmful.

Ideally, start the session with oral or vaginal sex and finish with anal. Another option is to change the condom after anal sex before resuming other types of sex.

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6. Favorable Positions

The active partner should seek sexual positions that are both pleasurable and controllable to prevent the penis from slipping and causing injury.

Positions like doggy style and on top, for example, are commonly associated with penile fractures. Be cautious when performing them.

7. Consent and Communication

Consent and communication in anal sex ensure a safe and pleasurable experience for both partners.

Besides ensuring mutual agreement without pressure, discussing limits, expectations, and concerns builds trust and safety, helping the partner relax and easing the sphincter.

Pre- and Post-Anal Sex Care

Engaging in anal sex also requires attention to hygiene. Both before and after, it’s important to wash the penis for the active partner and the anus for the passive partner.

The area should be cleaned carefully to avoid discomfort. Use only water and neutral soap. For the penis, it’s important to expose the glans.

Hygiene can be done in a shared shower to begin and end the moment in a pleasant way.

Understanding how to practice safe anal sex can contribute to a more satisfying sexual life. However, it’s crucial to take all the necessary precautions to avoid fibrosis, a hallmark of Peyronie’s Disease, which can lead to penile deformities and negatively affect sexual quality of life.

To learn more about these experiences and take care of your male sexual health, preventing penile curvature, join the Dr. Paulo Egydio’s WhatsApp channel.

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Paulo Egydio, M.D.

PhD in Urology from USP, CRM 67482-SP, RQE 19514, Author of Geometric Principles (known as “Egydio Technique”), as well as other articles and scientific books in the area. Guest professor to teach classes and live surgeries at conferences in Brazil and abroad.

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