There are few situations where size matters – at least in medicine – such as cases of micropenis. However, in personal and sexual life, it is almost impossible not to worry and compare penis size with other men. Find out more about the topic.
Does size really matter?
For sexual performance and satisfaction, both for the individual and their partner, size does not matter, as pleasure depends on various factors. However, penis size can bring some satisfaction to men.
This idea reflects the social and cultural pressure found in many parts of the world, where a larger penis is associated with greater virility. Men who consider their penis small may feel insecure about their masculinity.
What size is considered large?
Although there is a wide variety in penis sizes, an international comparison shows that the average size is 13.58 centimeters when erect. The average for Brazilians is slightly larger, reaching 15.22 centimeters.
Penises larger than these measurements are above average and, therefore, can be considered larger than the norm.
It is important to remember that there is natural diversity in penis sizes. Men who underestimate their measurements may feel even more insecure and anxious, potentially impacting their sexual life.
Read also: Learn how to measure your penis step by step
Is bigger always better?
It is common to assume that bigger is better, but this statement is not true from the perspective of sexual satisfaction.
The quality of a sexual relationship is much more related to interaction, communication, affection, and emotional connection between the couple, rather than penis size. Additionally, a very large penis can even cause discomfort or pain in some positions.
Even for men who have a genuinely small penis, it is still possible to experience pleasure through oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, caresses, or erotic toys.
What’s more important: size or thickness?
It is impossible to definitively say whether size or thickness is more important, as this depends on the preference of each sexual partner.
For some, the sensation of fullness provided by a thicker penis may be more pleasurable, while others may prefer a longer penis to reach deeper stimulation zones. The aesthetics of the penis can also be appealing to the partner.
On the other hand, there are sexual partners who do not notice a significant difference between a thicker or longer penis.
Learn more: Discover 08 types of penises and their characteristics
Factors that really matter for sexual satisfaction
When it comes to sexual performance and satisfaction, there are much more important factors for ensuring a quality relationship, such as:
- Communication
- Intimacy
- Affection
- Trust
- Understanding your partner’s needs
- Fulfilling fantasies
- Eroticism
When does penis size really matter?
There are situations where size does matter, and penis size can make a difference.
For example, some men are born with a condition known as micropenis, a genetic or hormonal disorder that causes the penis to not exceed 7 centimeters when erect.
Very large penises can also present a problem, as they may cause discomfort for the partner. In many cases, men feel uncomfortable with the excess volume in their clothes, which can cause some embarrassment.
Moreover, the development of fibroses that cause Peyronie’s Disease can change the characteristics of the penis, including reducing its size, which can interfere with both pleasure and sexual function.
When is it time to seek medical help?
If penis size – whether large or small – is causing difficulties during sex, pain, or significantly affecting self-esteem, it is time to seek medical help.
Conditions such as micropenis and Peyronie’s Disease can cause distress to men, and these conditions can, in many cases, be treated with interventions aimed at improving function and, when applicable, the aesthetics of the penis. However, each case needs to be individually assessed. In many cases, a psychologist or sexologist can also be involved.
Sexual health is a fundamental part of your life, and it is important not to neglect it to ensure more satisfying relationships, without worrying about whether size matters.
It is important to be comfortable with your own body and understand that sexual satisfaction involves many factors beyond physical measurements, and it can vary from person to person. If you need help, Dr. Paulo Egydio is available to evaluate and guide you on matters related to sexual health and well-being. Contact us to learn more!
